Give him space and stop stressing over him!
It's that time of year again. The time where a summer fling is winding down and guys are slowly pulling the "I need time to think us over" card. It's also the time of year where my phone is constantly ringing for advice from my friends.
The most common question: What does "I need time" mean?
Here's what it means- HE WILL TELL YOU EVENTUALLY! "I need time" doesn't mean "I'm never calling you again. Leave me alone." It means "leave me alone so I can think about the best decision." Sure, I will agree with the fact that guys are known for dumping girls at the drop of a hat, but if he's telling you he needs time to make a decision, at least he's taking even a few seconds from his XBOX to think about things rather than dumping you suddenly.
So stop analyzing every single word that comes out of his mouth and give him a chance to think. Don't pressure him in to a decision. Give him as much time as he needs. After all, the more time he gets, the more he can think things through and ultimately he will make the decision best for him.
Guys are confusing, so give them a chance to figure themselves out and save yourself the sleepless nights.
